How could i resist the temptation

hmm....success is sweet...is it??
well i have different view regarding that whether one should taste the fruit of succes and be happy or one should see that fruit as any other vegetable that we eat without any particular like or dislike....
what i mean by that is.....philosophy of geeta....sukh aur dukh mein sam raho....behave equally in joy and sadness.....but this is very difficult
And since i am not as great a man as many others i am happy that someone took the pains of reading this blog of mine and commented. Thanks...thank you very much.

The issue which i have been asked to deal with is " Outsiders not giving bhaw(value), expected status to iitians". To an outsider that would sound strange but it at times is the grim reality that many of us face.

So as iitians we do recieve lots of attention, respect in society but we do get disregarded at one of the most important things of life which is......
There is a saying "All the fights in this world take place for only three things jar(money), joru(wife or womenn), jameen(Land)".
I find this more or less true.
Now with regard to iitians which one do we lack....we obviously have lots of status, money and land is also not an issue at least in these four years.

But we lack joru, its one of the realities about which every engineering student who has studied hard and hard enough wonders all the times. Why do women dont study mathematics and come to iit.
The answer that comes to my mind is"Man are from mars and women are from venus".

Sorry for not being able to give a very pin point answer but i cant help it because i myself dont know the answer. Why women(or i should say girls) dont like to study mathematics. I can remember of the controversy that came into lime light after one of the harvard HOD's commented on this issue saying women lack something. I wont like to get involved into that.

But i do believe that men and women are fundamentally different. God has decided a few things for us which hold true for a majority of population. I dont need statistics to tell that women dont like mathemactics but by that i dont mean that even if women want they cant do good at maths and engineering subjects. I firmly believe that even the most dull of the students is capable of being iitian, if he or she is ready to work hard and hard and hard and hard..........

So we dont have girls in iit and it cant be helped either.
This makes iitians one of the most desperate speices on the earth looking for friendship with fairer sex. Its an undeniable truth which holds for majority of iitians.

Again i come back with a saying to seal this argument
"Bin maange moti mile, maange mile naa bheekh"
if you dont ask for something you could get the best of it but if you beg for it then you would probably not get it.

Now comes the part i have only heard about. IItians are famous in bombay for trying their best to befriend girls by hook or crook. Chat rooms are filled with them. In both MI and Techfest you could see groups of iitians searching with hungry eyes .....one and only thing....

And when that happens
" Beggars are never the choosers"
To bhaw milna to door ke baat hai bhaiya laat bhi mil sakti hai...aur milti bhi hogi

I dont have personal experience of any of these things so cant say much about it.

Hence my remedy to the situation is...NO REMEDY....because when a disease is there i cant be cured without medicine and if medicine isnt there then disease will be there

Too much of fart for my first comment.

ak